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    Friday, 12 January 2018

    ADVICE: Long story short. My ex won't come back to me after I hurt h...

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    Long story short. My ex won't come back to me after I hurt her. We had a couple of little break ups, due to my issues, which I have now addressed ( Commitment ). During a "Break " I heard rumours about her and got angry. I described her as a " Thorn in my side " She heard about it and became offended, and quite rightly too.


    Any way I realised too late it was her I wanted for the rest of my life. But she was no longer interested. At first she said she needed time to herself. Only 2 weeks ago she told me how much she loved me ( before the face book comment incident described above ) . She she says she doesn't love me anymore and can't come back to me as I hurt her too much. She can't forgive me either. Then the classic line of " I cant say what will happen in 6 months time " cam e out.
    When I told her if she didn't want me anymore, then tell me straight as I had a date. She got all funny, saying " You didn't take long to get over me did you," and " Obviously you moved on enough to go for drinks and dinner,"
    I got confused and asked again " Do you want me or not, " and then I got what I didn't want to hear. " I dont love you and can't come back to you. I can't forgive you,"
    I am devestated. Only weeks ago she loved me with all her heart. Now she doesn't. She ignores my texts and my calls. Can she ever forgive me and does she love or miss me at all.
    Its been days now since I contacted her. I wont contact her anymore, but I guess I just have to give up and accept she is over me and has moved on. Is that the right course of action?

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    1 comment:

    Anonymous said...

    Name: Adetimi
    Other: Grace
    User: Vdqga

    When you've done what you could to make it work and she still shuts you out, you shouldn't force her to change her decision. If you love her, you will respect her decision and move on. Try to work on the reason she broke up with you. It will help you on your next relationship, that is, if you want a next relationship.